La spiruline, l’alliée de votre forme

Kezako?

La spiruline est une algue couleur bleu vert qui possède des vertus fort intéressantes.

En tous cas, il n’y a pas photo entre les jours où j’en prends et les autres. Au vu de mon agenda de suractif, il faut parfois mettre un tigre dans le moteur.

Pour cela, vive la spiruline! Au contraire du café, du guarana, du RedBull, Monster, Nalu et autres PowerShots elle vous soutient au lieu de vous “niquer” les surrénales qui un jour vont vous lâcher.

B9, B12, fer, phosphore, calcium, magnésium, zinc, cuivre, acide linoléique: de la bombe! Et sans le pic d’insuline lié aux sucres.

Comment prendre ce truc?

Ca dépend de la présentation. En poudre comme à gauche sur la photo, je n’aime pas. En grains comme la version de droite c’est super sur la salade, vite fait dans un verre d’eau. Et le matin.

Autre booster: l’aswaganda. Nom barbare mais également fort bien. On en parle une prochaine fois.

Essayez donc et donnez moi des nouvelles!

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Self-Esteem: How to feel good about yourself?

Today, I was meeting with one of my friends. He’s good. He’s even very good at what he does. He should be self confident and proud of what he delivers. Point is that he isn’t. He feels like a low life. He feels like crap. In fact he came to me for advice and help. A typical case of low self esteem. Luckily, curable.

Focus on your strengths

One key to enhanced self-esteem is to focus on your strenghts. Those strenghts that make you achieve results. You see, we discussed his successes and he felt alive again. If you focus on your limitations, what do you think will happen? It will depress you: guaranteed!
Know your weaknesses and limitations. Cherish them. They help you avoiding going the wrong way. And get help to deal with them. I hate accounting, so I hire a good accountant. I hate configuring servers, so I use a great hosting company. Outsource most of what is related to your limitations. Cleaning, ironing, drinks, accounting, graphical design, you name it. I still need to outsource all of th eprogramming tasks I still do because, ableit interesting, they do not pay well compared to applying some other skills I do have. I am a darn good coder but not a stellar one. I have no interest in becoming a stellar coder. I can recognize and hire one who will be happy to work for me (since I’ll at least be able to understand and appreciate what he does). So I have still to learn to let go of that to make room for my core strenghts even more than I do today. I should move coding to my hobby time. I’d better be mentoring teams on how to work well together, helping formulate and implement working strategies, or helping people craft great systems. And the net result will be a known one: a breath of fresh air, a boost to my self esteem, new interesting challenges, and better compensation for making my customers utterly better off.

Get help when you need it

If you suffer from low self esteem, you may not seek help as often as you should. Someone with good self-esteem is not afraid to call for help. Calling for help is a sign that you can deal with your shortcomings and are not afraid of what people may think.
I called upon Alan Weiss for mentoring me some years ago and it transformed my life. As I write this article, I am looking at those boarding passes and reservations for next week. I am attending Alan’s workshops in Berlin: Change Management and Thrive! It all happens at the Ritz Carlton. Not a low end place for sure. People who will be there are mostly over achievers. Why do they go to such events then if they are so good already? Mmmh, it’s because they aren’t afraid to ask for help when reaching for the next level! As you can see, walking the talk is also a good thing. And I’ll never be afraid to ask for help anymore.

Act instead of brewing in your own juices

Anxiety is a sign of self-esteem problems. Take notice that you can’t be involved in the action and anxious at the same time. Taking action is a good remedy against anxiety. And it will contribute to produce results while applying your skills. So, stop those dark toughts and act upon something. Anything. Even sorting out that drawer of yours, getting the trash out, writing a paper, talking to your significant other.

Stop listening to confidence vampires

You may know them. They are the ones who push your red buttons and move you into that state where you feel bad, guilty, worthless. Get them out of your lives, confront them on their bad manners. Ignore them. Do what it takes to keep them at bay: you deserve better than that. They do provide feedback for their own benefit, clearly not for yours. Stop listening to them. Just stop it!

Let’s summarize

  1. Focus on your strengths and outsource the limitations related duties
  2. Get help when you need it
  3. Stop listening to confidence vampires
  4. Act instead of brewing in your own juices
This will go a long way in enhancing your life. I have walked that path and am much better now. My self-esteem is rooted in my true skills and strenghts. I take action to make things happen. I wish that you make the same come true.
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Henri Laborit and the nervous system

I finished re-reading Henri Laborit’s “Eloge de la Fuite” and “La Nouvelle Grille”.

Very interesting books dealing with how the human brain works.

The concepts are illustrated in a movie of Alain Resnais: “Mon Oncle d’Amérique.”

There are several videos available on YouTube about it.

Part1

Part 2

When he talks with Salvador Dali, it becomes quite cool.

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Improve your way of working with somatic experiencing.

When the pressure builds up, the body has a tendency to store the stress. Piling up this kind of energy is prone to creating lots of side effects. For example I know that it creates lots of pain in the neck for me. Here comes an answer that requires no pills, no weird material and is inexpensive due to the fact that it costs no money. Of course do not expect this to let you continue living in crazy ways with no respect for yourself !

What is somatic experiencing

First of all let me say that I am not a trainer in the technique. I am a practitioner and have no clue about the theory behind it. I just know that it works nicely and that I do get a lot of advantages for using it.

Somatic experiencing allows to release accumulated tension in your nervous system. Not the conscious one, the other one that works in the background and ends up oveloaded in the life of any dynamic and commited person.

When performing the technique blasts of energy discharges are happening. You will also find yourself in a much better mood and less prone to mood swings which usually come with tiredness and overwork. Some energy may be there since eons due to whatever bad happened during your childhood or other moments in time that were a bit hard on the nerves.

How to do it

To perform somatic experiencing, get yourself into a quiet place (abeit you can do it anyhere once you know how – I do it routinely in meetings, in the car, while waiting at the store). Start doing very slow moves. Slow is key The slowest, the more efficient. No need for big movements. You can choose to move your wrist, your ankle, your neck… All very very very very slowly and gently. Do not expect anything. Let things occur. If you feel the urge to yawn, do not repress it since it is going to bring great results. Relax. Let yourself space out. Do this as long a you want. A typical session would last for a quarter of an hour or so. Then come back here and now, look around with your eyes without moving your head, all in a gentle and slow manner. You should feel better.

Benefits

By regularly doing the technique you will soon realize that a lot of tension is present in your body. Such awareness is already a benefit in itself since it will serve as a red flag to know when you have gone too far and need to stop. As a man who underwent surgery for not listening enough to body signals, you can believe that I do so very actively now (well, to be honest, I am quite in overdrive regularly but I give myself time off. My wife knows the drill by now.). Do not let you drift too far.

Another good thing is that tension will go away and you will be in a more alert state without being tense. Before a major meeting this is great gift.

Also, by repeating the technique you will need less and less time to let the tension go. As I sometimes tend to overeat in stressful situations, just doing the technique will let me eschew the temptation. So, this may help you controlling the calories intake by a good measure.

As a general benefit, spending sometime for and with oneself is telling your body and mind that you care. They will be thankful believe me.

Anchoring the Technique

The technique can be anchored by having one or two favorite moves identified as releasing the tension very fast. For me this is a combination of a wrist movement done in a specific way ( nothing that special here ). It makes me yawn like mad. Even thinking about it makes me yawn ! (Yawning now). Try to find your own!

To learn more

Somatic experiencing is much more than the aforedescribed. A good book: Awakening the Tiger Within.

Check out: http://www.traumahealing.com/waking.html , http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Somatic_Experiencing

As you will see, somatic experiencing is good for shock and developmental trauma. Given the modern workplace, this may be applicable on a daily basis in a lot of places I do know of.

Combinations

Combine it with EFT (emotional freedom technique) and you have a clear winner.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_Freedom_Technique

I used EFT in the past when I got car jacked with a gun pointed onto my head. The gun was help by a guy who clearly had had too much pot or what not in his blood at the time. So, after that I needed some help and EFT was a technique that worked marvels.

Parting words

We do live in places where the atmosphere is not really what we were designed for. The nervous system is really required to perform way ahead of its designed limits, especially when the stress is maintained over long periods of time. Do yourself a favor and try these techniques out for a much better life balance. They are better than drugs or alcohol !

Copyright 2009 by Philippe Back – All rights reserved

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